Shaadi ke liye ladki chahiye | Need a girl for marriage

In India, most people prefer arranged marriages. Love marriages also happen. But the percentage of arranged marriages in India is higher than love marriages. It depends on you. Do you want to go with an arranged marriage? Then here we are to help you find your perfect partner.

If you have got a girl, if you earn well, you are from a good house. Maybe your expectations are too high. You lower the level of your expectations a bit and bring them to their real level. You will definitely find your perfect partner. It's not very hard to get married. Please post your matrimonial ad on our website.

The following are certain things which I found out after going through an arranged marriage:

Marriages are fixed in heaven

Never ever believe in the saying that "Marriages are fixed in heaven". You can reduce the risk of ending up with the wrong partner significantly by handling the matter systematically. Yes, there are pretty good chances that you may find a wrong match even after due diligence, but the risk is much lower. It's the same as the chances of getting killed while riding without a helmet.

Write down things

Sit down one day with a peaceful mind and write down the things that you are looking for in your prospective bride/groom. Make the pst as extensive as you can. Then prioritise this post from 'things you will never compromise with' to 'this is not that essential'. You have to prioritise as nobody in this world is perfect and you may not find a partner who has all these qualities. Be extremely honest with yourself while preparing this post. Don't go with what other people say or what you think is right. He/she is going to be your perfect partner and only you can decide what qualities you want in them. Most people say that the past shouldn't matter in a relationship. I went by this saying. But my wife's past haunts me every second.

Honest and straight forward

When making a match, always call your potential partner first. Try to project yourself as an utterly honest, straight-forward, and non-compromising person. Make them comfortable so that they can discuss things with you.

Don't tell anyone

Meet your partner without any family members. Ask your partner if they have all the qualities you listed down. Tell them to be utterly honest. Give them assurance that you will not tell anyone. Tell them that if he/she ped at that time, it would certainly create problems in your marriage as you don't want to compromise on these things. They will either tell you or move back themselves if they don't have those qualities. Be utterly ruthless (internally, not externally) in this process. One single thing can ruin your entire plan.

Keep this integrity

If you don't like them, just say no to marriage. Don't give any reason. Just say that you think your thoughts don't match. Never ever release their secrets to anyone. Maintain your integrity.

Keep rejecting matches for some time. If you don't find any matches during this time, sit again, re-visit that post. See if you can compromise on certain items. Repeat this process unless your marriage is fixed.

Make them comfortable

Use the time between your engagement and marriage wisely. Divide it into two halves. In the first half, don't get emotionally attached to your partner. Talk a lot with them and make them comfortable with you. Once they are comfortable with you, you will get to know their real self. Observe everything during this time. The way she talks, The way she replies to serious discussions The way she responds to amusing conversations Just observe everything without getting emotionally attached to them. Ask a lot of questions during this time. Don't hesitate or think about what is right.

At the end of the first half of this period, sit again one day. Now decide whether you want to marry this person or not. Don't get under pressure and think that there is no other way now. For me, there is still a way.

Gather all the courage

If you don't like her, now is the time. Gather all the courage you have and say no to marriage. Don't listen to anyone. Just be utterly selfish this time. This is your life only. Again, don't tell anyone the real reason. I repeat again, don't tell anyone the real reason. Just say that you don't think you are a good match. Whatever means you choose, just get rid of this marriage.

Get emotionally attached

If you like her, now is the time to get emotionally attached to her. fall in love with her. Believe in everything she says. Start preparing for your marriage. Enjoy your time. Don't have second thoughts now. You have decided on whatever you had to decide. Now give her all the trust and happiness in this world.